My hymen is actually the great wall of china and wont break!

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Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for awhile and we have been trying to have sex...but everytime we try i burst into tears because my hymen is still intact. I went to the gyno and he said im normal. I just have to lube it up and let him stay inside me longer then five minutes. I honestly do not think Im normal. I wanna have sex Im almost 21 years of age and Im inlove with the kid.I cant keep sucking my boyfriends dick, to distract him from the fact that we cant fully have sex yet(well actually I can, but it would be nice to have the oppertunity to do both). ughhh. Is it normal for a hymen to possibly tear over time? rather then in one shot? ALl my friends say "oh it wasnt even painful, only took one time"...what the hell am i then??? cause my situation is way different =(

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  • DanB
    12 years ago

    If you do sports, track/running there's a chance it could tear.

    Honestly have him go down on you, lube up, then just force it :x

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  • suburbianguy
    12 years ago

    When my wife and I had sex the first time she didn't bleed at all but I has been assured that it has broken. She cried cause it hurt and according to her friends they all cried too.

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  • VulpesFidelis
    12 years ago

    Normal, as in most of the population? No.

    Truly bizarre, as in medically rare? Also no.

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  • stratman
    12 years ago

    Are you sure you didn't get some stainless steel chastity belt sewn into your d-stairs when you were younger? Perhaps an over protective father?

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