My Husband Molest Me while I Sleep

Me and my wife are going through the same thing. I have been doing that to her. I am definitely not proud of it. When I did it I didn't want to do it, it was kind of a subconscious thing. whether it was a lack of self control or what I don't know. Either way it was wrong. If you don't want him to do that then he shouldn't. I had done that to my wife on several occasions and felt terrible every time but kept doing it anyways. Me and my wife might be getting a divorce we are kind of in a limbo type situation. She is going to get counseling/ therapy and I'm going to get the same. I love my wife and would do anything for her but there is something wrong and I don't know why I keep doing that. So maybe your husband is in the same situation, or it's just his thing I don't know. Just because he does that doesn't make him a rapist. If I can't fix this then I'm going to divorce my wife because she doesn't deserve that kind of treatment, she deserves to be happy. Pose that question to him and see what he says. Best of luck to you.