I ran across this post after experiencing a similar situation. I just wanted to add that it doesn't matter who this person is or what excuse he throws out (stress my butt!), he's a pervert and this is wrong. Once you have told someone "no" that is it. They need to back off and give you your personal space. The fact that he knows what he is doing and continues to do it without the consent of his wife, speaks volumes to his respect for her. She's not some blowup doll that is there for his sexual pleasure. She is a human being who, while attracted and in love with her husband, isn't always in the mood to pleasure him at his every whim. Saying she should welcome his unwanted advances because he's her husband is backwards thinking. Can't she be free to get a good night's rest without someone trying to sex her up? If she's in a deep sleep (whatever the reason is) she is unconscious and therefore cannot consent to sex, and in that aspect he is essentially raping her. Especially, if while awake, she has previously told him she doesn't want him to do that to her anymore. Men need to be taught that women are not there to cater to their every need. We should be respected, loved, protected. And no, I'm not an effing "feminist" I'm just a human being who thinks that a man should respect the women in his life. Afterall, without women, men wouldn't even be born.
My Husband Molest Me while I Sleep
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I ran across this post after experiencing a similar situation. I just wanted to add that it doesn't matter who this person is or what excuse he throws out (stress my butt!), he's a pervert and this is wrong. Once you have told someone "no" that is it. They need to back off and give you your personal space. The fact that he knows what he is doing and continues to do it without the consent of his wife, speaks volumes to his respect for her. She's not some blowup doll that is there for his sexual pleasure. She is a human being who, while attracted and in love with her husband, isn't always in the mood to pleasure him at his every whim. Saying she should welcome his unwanted advances because he's her husband is backwards thinking. Can't she be free to get a good night's rest without someone trying to sex her up? If she's in a deep sleep (whatever the reason is) she is unconscious and therefore cannot consent to sex, and in that aspect he is essentially raping her. Especially, if while awake, she has previously told him she doesn't want him to do that to her anymore. Men need to be taught that women are not there to cater to their every need. We should be respected, loved, protected. And no, I'm not an effing "feminist" I'm just a human being who thinks that a man should respect the women in his life. Afterall, without women, men wouldn't even be born.