It's not normal if it bothers you and you stay silent! You feel like he's using you as a sex toy and he feels like he's doing something you both enjoy. That's not fun. You will continue to get what you put up with and nothing will change if you don't speak up. Unlikely he is kinkier than you...more likely you haven't been a proactive communicator in the sexual stakes so he is running off 'unattended' doing whatever he can to feel good while you think 'oh no not this again!' Sorry if I'm being harsh but damn girl you need to accept some responsibility here, find your kink, unleash on this man and get a game plan that works for you both! :)
My husband doesn't respect me sexually
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It's not normal if it bothers you and you stay silent! You feel like he's using you as a sex toy and he feels like he's doing something you both enjoy. That's not fun. You will continue to get what you put up with and nothing will change if you don't speak up. Unlikely he is kinkier than you...more likely you haven't been a proactive communicator in the sexual stakes so he is running off 'unattended' doing whatever he can to feel good while you think 'oh no not this again!' Sorry if I'm being harsh but damn girl you need to accept some responsibility here, find your kink, unleash on this man and get a game plan that works for you both! :)