Marriage is a partnership and if the only role he is willing to play as a partner is the role of making his wife solely responsible for the household chores AND for bringing in income as he sits on his ass and does nothing then I see no reason to continue this "partnership".
I have no problems with him taking a few months to himself, but to lay all of the burden for running the household on me? I am not his Mother, I already have children to be a Mother to.
I think getting a retirement check every month means that he is pulling his weight at least financially. So it wouldn't really all be dependent on you at all , would it?
Being a soldier isn't easy, let him have a break. He joined when he was very young, perhaps he realised that he wants out?
Talk to him, instead of venting you frustration on the net.
My husband does not want to work!!
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Marriage is a partnership and if the only role he is willing to play as a partner is the role of making his wife solely responsible for the household chores AND for bringing in income as he sits on his ass and does nothing then I see no reason to continue this "partnership".
I have no problems with him taking a few months to himself, but to lay all of the burden for running the household on me? I am not his Mother, I already have children to be a Mother to.
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I think getting a retirement check every month means that he is pulling his weight at least financially. So it wouldn't really all be dependent on you at all , would it?
Being a soldier isn't easy, let him have a break. He joined when he was very young, perhaps he realised that he wants out?
Talk to him, instead of venting you frustration on the net.
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He's a file clerk and IT tech. He's never even seen a battlefield.