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My boyfriend had a friend, a friend with benefit, actually. They were not even boyfriends but they had sex a couple of times. At that time, we are not yet steady. When I learned about it and we're already on, I got angry and hurt. They're over but I still have this hatred in that girl. Why is this so? :( How can I move on from it? Help..
It's because you're insecure. When you get more secure with yourself and your relationship it won't matter who he was with before.
she is a girl and they were not even boyfriends.....thats confusing.O_o
anyway, i guess time should heal the pain :| (i m sorry thats kinda lousy advice) but what can u do..why dont u have a talk with your boyfriend and tell him how much it hurt you...so that he knows how u feel!i.e. if u want to hang on to him.
OR
write the girl's name in some paper, burn it and then flush it in the toilet...Try it!Maybe that will make you feel better ...
Sweet Revenge ^^
I get what you're saying. Its hard. I had the same issue. Give it a few months and ask him why he felt the need to have a FWB. Maybe you're worried that's all you are? I think if he loves you, you can ask him to stop hanging with her.
irregardless of who he was banging, the fact of the matter is that you were not "steady" so you shouldnt be upset.
You're right =)I don't have the right to feel that way because we're not yet steady that time. I'm just too emotional that I get upset every time that issue comes to my mind. However, I'm slowly healing now. I've changed my mindset on how to deal with it. Thanks anyways =)