Gotta say this sounds like a communication problem on both your parts. Your GF might be feeling like you don't value her because she isn't working.
If you want her to make you dinner:
Tell your GF that you think she works just as hard as you (even if its a lie- make it convincing). Tell her you appreciate her.
Ask her to tell you about her day and listen without saying anything or judging.
Make an effort to do these things every day for a week. At the end of the week say, "I'm really exhausted. Do you think you could make dinner tonight? Maybe next week I'll make dinner and we can trade on and off?"
My girlfriend won't cook me dinner, and this pisses me off!!!
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Gotta say this sounds like a communication problem on both your parts. Your GF might be feeling like you don't value her because she isn't working.
If you want her to make you dinner:
Tell your GF that you think she works just as hard as you (even if its a lie- make it convincing). Tell her you appreciate her.
Ask her to tell you about her day and listen without saying anything or judging.
Make an effort to do these things every day for a week. At the end of the week say, "I'm really exhausted. Do you think you could make dinner tonight? Maybe next week I'll make dinner and we can trade on and off?"
See what she says.