It's understandable that you're angry, but think about it this way. She has to deal with a toddler all day while you go to work. Yes, your job may be stressful but nothing is as stressful as taking care of a kid, you get the better end of the bargain.
She's stressed out like you. But maybe the two of you could take turns cooking for each other? It might give you some time to bond. If not, then you eat elsewhere but your kid would see less of you.
I dont know how to put this. I go to work at 12 a.m. and go to my second job at 8 a.m. and come home at 4-5 p.m. and I have to go to work at 12 a.m. I am hoping she will make me something to eat because I need to sleep. If I dont get my sleep and performance poorly at work because of it I lose my job and her life will get tougher having to raise a child on the streets. I work about 60-70 hours a week so she can stay at home because that's what she wanted to do. How do I not deserve at least a sandwich?
Of course you deserve a sandwich. Here's what you do: Take out a plate. Put two slices of bread on the plate. Add some meat, cheese, lettuce, tomato, or other filling of your choosing. Eat the sandwich. Have a nap. Give your girlfriend a hug and stop treating her like she's useless.
If you don't like working so many hours, talk to her about her getting a part time job. You could send the kid to daycare or take turns looking after him.
Great theory.
The kid is at his aunts house during the day until she goes to work at five. Those were the only conditions that the DSS worker would accept for when I am not home. She only deals with the kid from about five until when Auntie or grandma comes to get him.
she wont get a job. She sits at home all day watching HBO. I think that the least she can do is cook a fucking meal. She's going to find herself homeless if she does not get a job soon anyway. I found out she cheated on me again. The lease expires in July. If she doesn't get a job her parents wont take her and I'm getting joint custody of the kid shared with her aunt.
Fuck her. You can judge me all you want. I was cool with her until a few months ago. If she wont watch the kid and she wont cook the least she can go is not fuck other guys. I used to feel so bad for her. Not anymore.
She is lucky u gave her a chance. Food is one our basic need. Go bang girls from different countries and explore new international flavours. Ps u r not a bad dad.
My girlfriend won't cook me dinner, and this pisses me off!!!
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It's understandable that you're angry, but think about it this way. She has to deal with a toddler all day while you go to work. Yes, your job may be stressful but nothing is as stressful as taking care of a kid, you get the better end of the bargain.
She's stressed out like you. But maybe the two of you could take turns cooking for each other? It might give you some time to bond. If not, then you eat elsewhere but your kid would see less of you.
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I dont know how to put this. I go to work at 12 a.m. and go to my second job at 8 a.m. and come home at 4-5 p.m. and I have to go to work at 12 a.m. I am hoping she will make me something to eat because I need to sleep. If I dont get my sleep and performance poorly at work because of it I lose my job and her life will get tougher having to raise a child on the streets. I work about 60-70 hours a week so she can stay at home because that's what she wanted to do. How do I not deserve at least a sandwich?
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Of course you deserve a sandwich. Here's what you do: Take out a plate. Put two slices of bread on the plate. Add some meat, cheese, lettuce, tomato, or other filling of your choosing. Eat the sandwich. Have a nap. Give your girlfriend a hug and stop treating her like she's useless.
If you don't like working so many hours, talk to her about her getting a part time job. You could send the kid to daycare or take turns looking after him.
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Great theory.
The kid is at his aunts house during the day until she goes to work at five. Those were the only conditions that the DSS worker would accept for when I am not home. She only deals with the kid from about five until when Auntie or grandma comes to get him.
she wont get a job. She sits at home all day watching HBO. I think that the least she can do is cook a fucking meal. She's going to find herself homeless if she does not get a job soon anyway. I found out she cheated on me again. The lease expires in July. If she doesn't get a job her parents wont take her and I'm getting joint custody of the kid shared with her aunt.
Fuck her. You can judge me all you want. I was cool with her until a few months ago. If she wont watch the kid and she wont cook the least she can go is not fuck other guys. I used to feel so bad for her. Not anymore.
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She is lucky u gave her a chance. Food is one our basic need. Go bang girls from different countries and explore new international flavours. Ps u r not a bad dad.
she probably cheats on you because you're such an arsehole.
Try to convey to her that you're equals and if she made you a sandwich that wouldn't make her your slave or you could go to a deli and buy a sandwich.
I work the same amount of hours a week as you, and I know exactly what your saying (minus having the kid). Sucks, but you won't change her mind.