My girlfriend wants to move out

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my girlfriend wants to move out because she absolutely hates her family. She gets along with em but they have really crazy rules. So since she can't afford an apartment she wants to move in with her front door neighbor and his sister who are moving out and getting two more people to get a 5 bedroom apartment. Im personally against it because the guy throws huge parties and im afraid someone would drug her and rape or something :/ and also the guy has had a crush on her until he found out about me. But im still sketchy about him.is it normal for me not to want her to move out because im scared of the oh my bad did i just walk in? and you know peeping and drugs and parties. My girlfriend is not a drinker at all nor a druggie but im afraid of her moving out and since i can't move out yet i cant help her out. She wants to move out and me move in with her a year later which is when i can move out
i really am just scared that something will happen

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  • jerrydd
    13 years ago | pl

    Sometimes rules suck but they are meant to protect. Sadly no matter how "crazy" the rules are, rebelling against them leads to unwanted problems that make you realize why the dumb rule was there on the first place. I agree with you about the plan sounding bad. Have her stick it out for 1 more year, if you can, the. Move out together if need be.

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  • russellnb
    13 years ago | pl

    Normal to worry but a bad reasdon to move in with her even a year later. She would be better with the silly rules. Maybe she should see this.

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    • jonvenom
      13 years ago | pl

      no i wouldn't move in with her and her friends her and me would fine another place

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago | pl

    Yeah, something could happen, but her moving out isn't your choice to make. All you can really do is support her and let her know that you will always be there for you. Trust me, the first few weeks she lives with the party people, she'll have a lot of fun, but roommates being roommates... She'll get sick of them pretty quick and need your support.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Then get a place with her. It's normal to worry but circumstance is circmstance

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