My girlfriend thinks i'm bored of having sex with her

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Sooo...
Some people might be aware that this isn't the first Topic I've posted on this particular relationship. Taking to is it normal has helped me tremendously in the past though, so I thought I'd give it another shot.

alright, so I'm still with my GF after 7 months of PURE Bliss! I've met her friends, Been back to her house (her parents still HATE me) but I never mind, as long as she loves me.

However one thing she said to me keeps spinning in my head.
"We aren't having enough sex!" Okay.. Maybe I was too tired, maybe lazy, or just Bored? she kept theorizing. and I was terrified, I quickly had to talk her down and assure her that this wasn't the case, None of It! but I am wondering..

How many times a night does she want me to be with her before she is satisfied, I count 3-4 time a Night..
and I just can't summon the enthusiasm for round 3 and 4 and apparently I take too long to recover. 20 minutes of sex separated by 10-15 minutes respite. and on and on it goes..

Please, is this Normal? Do I finish too early? is it weird that it takes 10-15 minutes for me to go again?

Thanks in advance everyone!

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  • Derpinism
    10 years ago | pl

    you sound like a sex machine to me. maybe shes just a nympho

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Thanks for the "kind" words, its like they say about dating pornstars ( not as fun as it sounds )
      Ps. non of us are pornstars :)

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Try spicing things up a bit. BDSM should cover the spice.

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Hahah, that maybe a little too spicy for us I think, but thanks for the suggestion ;)

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        You're welcome.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    One word: Toys.

    Tell her straight up that you don't have the stamina. Even some of the most helacious fucks I have been with needed recovery time so to put it simply, get some nice vibrators and get you guys a collection going. Get a nice box to keep them all in and keep the box in your car. Learn to give her oral, get some nicely flavored lubricants and even try going to some sex shops and buying sex games.

    If she is as horny as she sounds, she will appreciate the kink. Instead of saying "I can't perform", open that Pandoras Box and have her pick a toy. Maybe even have her pleasure herself with it while you suck on her tits and give her some oral.

    Trust me, sex need not ever be boring.

    Edit:Another recommendation, use "her pleasure" condoms with good lubricant. Basically it numbs your dick a bit so you will last longer because you won't be able to get off as quick. Good luck!

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Thank you man! Solid advice!
      The funny thing is, that she is one of those girls who act like the sweetest angel, "until you get her into bed" so its going to take some time for me to get her comfortable with sec stores I imagine, however, you sound like you are definately on to something, thank you :)

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  • AngelofMercy
    10 years ago

    Buy Her a Dildo. Get a 9 or 10 inch one. That should satisfy her. Tell her to use it when you are too tired. I have a glow in the dark one that changes colors!

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  • lc1988
    10 years ago

    Jesus Christ 3-4 times a night is too much. Is she even having an orgasm?

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      That is a good question, but I can tell she is, when q girl orgasms you can kind of feel it while inside her :)

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      • lc1988
        10 years ago

        Then if she wants to keep going that often..just have her be on top and do all the work. That should tire her out :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    3-4 times nightly isn't enough? Sounds like you have a fun girlfriend.

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Hahah, you could say that, I love her very much "even if I get a bit sore" ;)

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    I hate to say it, but that's not normal.

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Not very helpful, but thanks for sharing your opinion :)

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      • Couman
        10 years ago

        OK, more specifically then, I don't think anyone can reasonable claim having sex more than once a day is a sign that you're bored with her.

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        • tabula-rasa
          10 years ago

          Thanks Couman, I'm glad you think so :)
          Means that perhaps, I'm not the weird one.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    So she tries to get u to cum 3-4 times a night? Holy crap. That's excessive. Ur gonna get prostate cancer or something lol. My girl has been complaining about the same shit, that I'm not attracted to her or aren't into it. Like, bitch, I would have my face in ur cunt and my arm halfway up there if I wasnt 'into it'. Then After 45 min she blames me for her not being able to cum, when every 2 min she says some ridiculous shit like. "Did I feed my cat" or "do you wanna go to Jason's party for New Years eve this year?" Lol I can make her cum is like 2 seconds if she'd just FOCUS. I've started smacking her pussy every time her mind goes wandering. It's funny because I can tell even before she says anything. FOCUS ::smack::

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  • KBSH
    10 years ago

    Go get them tiger. You bastard.

    ~ Coming from a 17 year-old virgin.

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  • Tarrelvader
    10 years ago

    Dude, try new fetishes or something to make it exciting.

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  • moonyrose
    10 years ago

    Wow wow that`s really crazy! I think it`s more than enough to do it 1-2 per night :D she is lucky that you really care about it :)

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Thank you very much, though I think I'm lucky one^^

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    Holy shit. As a married man, I can't complain about the amount of sex I'm having because its adequate however...people would kill for your problems. She sounds like a super hero...a sex super hero. Rejection being her arch nemesis.

    Look. You need to sit this girl down and tell her how amazing she is. Then you need to tell her that you love/like/care-for her but after a 1 or 2 times you're spent. Tell her that its not her and if she really really wants to get off you'll buy her a dildo and you'll make out with her while she's taking care of her ish.

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      hahah, she know I love her. I guess I'm just lucky huh? although I could do without the whole "your girlfriend is a superhero" thing, I appreciate your comment :)

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  • Bubbles3
    10 years ago

    She sounds like she has a non-stop sex drive!
    I can't even masturbate that many times a night!
    Maybe once you feel she is about to have an orgasm stop and make out. Then keep doing that after a while and the orgasm will be ten times better, just keep stopping and then starting again.
    And like most of the suggestions, get her a vibrater or a dildo, just remember you're the one in charge.. I mean at least I hope!
    Talk dirty also! I mean at least that turns me on...
    Maybe rub her clitoris while having sex, that's double the amount of pleasure.
    Or, be more forceful! You know? harder?
    But you need to learn how to control when you come. Stop for a sec and take a break, pleasure her and then when you are ready go again. I have heard of guys that can go on for 4 whole fucking hours! I am pretty sure that if you learn how to do it she will be more satisfied in the end! ;)

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      Thank you for that extremely valuable advice!
      A pattern is beginning to form in the comments and I think I know what to do, the part about control was great advice too, I'll try it! I hope she'll like it!

      thanks for your help :)

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    I shart 3-4 times a day

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    Man, I thought you would say 3-4 times a week, not per night... That's crazy o.o

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    • tabula-rasa
      10 years ago

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks so :(

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