Before she moved in, did you know she was messy and did she know you were the opposite? This is the sort of thing which should be discussed by any people moving in together, whether or not they're in a relationship.
It may be too late to discuss it now, but at least give it a try before you see the only two alternatives as her getting rid of her possessions (which won't be "junk" to her) or kicking her out. Also, I suspect you're somewhat inflexible: did you expect her to move in with a backpack and a towel and nothing else? I've shared houses (briefly) with people like that and it's ridiculous.
My girlfriend moved in and turned my apartment into a dump
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Before she moved in, did you know she was messy and did she know you were the opposite? This is the sort of thing which should be discussed by any people moving in together, whether or not they're in a relationship.
It may be too late to discuss it now, but at least give it a try before you see the only two alternatives as her getting rid of her possessions (which won't be "junk" to her) or kicking her out. Also, I suspect you're somewhat inflexible: did you expect her to move in with a backpack and a towel and nothing else? I've shared houses (briefly) with people like that and it's ridiculous.