From my point of view, it looks like you don't love her. If you do you shouldn't worry about her weight gain, weight can be lost, but don't lose her over the fact that she has all these undesirable characteristics. These can all be fix. Never ever cheat on her, you wouldn't want that if you were the one who is gaining weight and is going through depression. If you can't handle this, then by all means, just end it. End it cleanly and swiftly, don't sugar coat it.
(I've been through something similar to this as well. Good luck.)
My girlfriend is depressed, lazy, and getting fat
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From my point of view, it looks like you don't love her. If you do you shouldn't worry about her weight gain, weight can be lost, but don't lose her over the fact that she has all these undesirable characteristics. These can all be fix. Never ever cheat on her, you wouldn't want that if you were the one who is gaining weight and is going through depression. If you can't handle this, then by all means, just end it. End it cleanly and swiftly, don't sugar coat it.
(I've been through something similar to this as well. Good luck.)