As someone who suffers with depression, this disgusts me. You do not love her - or even care about her, it seems - so you should leave her. She deserves better. Yes, she will be extremely sad if you leave her, but it'd hurt way more if you strung her along any longer than necessary when you have no feelings for her, and especially if you cheat. Us who are depressed have the tendency to think "all or nothing". If you cheat on her, there is a good chance she will think all men are like that, and drive herself further into hopelessness.
If you really loved her, you would stay beside her through her depression. Has it ever occured to you what SHE is going through? Being depressed is a living hell. You cannot think properly and all you feel is pain and complete hopelessness and don't see the point to staying alive anymore, let alone excersizing. It is a physical disorder, the serotonin and norepinephrine (the chemicals in your brain responsible for making you feel good, making good decisions, controlling your appetite and your sleeping patterns) are depleted in her brain. It is not something she can control. So if what you are concerned about is her weight and being "brought down", you don't care about her and you are quite selfish. Please, let her move on. She deserves someone much better than you. Urge her to get treatment, but don't stay with her. If you can't stand by her through this, then it simply won't work out.
You sound like a rude fat person. He's asking a legitimate question on if his feelings are normal...he didn't say he did cheat on his girlfriend he asked for her sake if it would be ok so that he didn't break her heart...i don't agree with it, but he's just asking. and judging by your epic paragraph you wrote you obviously are a hostile fat B.
My girlfriend is depressed, lazy, and getting fat
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As someone who suffers with depression, this disgusts me. You do not love her - or even care about her, it seems - so you should leave her. She deserves better. Yes, she will be extremely sad if you leave her, but it'd hurt way more if you strung her along any longer than necessary when you have no feelings for her, and especially if you cheat. Us who are depressed have the tendency to think "all or nothing". If you cheat on her, there is a good chance she will think all men are like that, and drive herself further into hopelessness.
If you really loved her, you would stay beside her through her depression. Has it ever occured to you what SHE is going through? Being depressed is a living hell. You cannot think properly and all you feel is pain and complete hopelessness and don't see the point to staying alive anymore, let alone excersizing. It is a physical disorder, the serotonin and norepinephrine (the chemicals in your brain responsible for making you feel good, making good decisions, controlling your appetite and your sleeping patterns) are depleted in her brain. It is not something she can control. So if what you are concerned about is her weight and being "brought down", you don't care about her and you are quite selfish. Please, let her move on. She deserves someone much better than you. Urge her to get treatment, but don't stay with her. If you can't stand by her through this, then it simply won't work out.
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You sound like a rude fat person. He's asking a legitimate question on if his feelings are normal...he didn't say he did cheat on his girlfriend he asked for her sake if it would be ok so that he didn't break her heart...i don't agree with it, but he's just asking. and judging by your epic paragraph you wrote you obviously are a hostile fat B.