I agree with Fullhouse.
I think that this girl is just a drama/ attention whore.
First off when it comes to your heart/feelings you need to be selfish. Yes consider others feelings, but you should never be unhappy or hurt because of someone else. She doesn't love you, and maybe one day she will but, I dont think you should cling to that hope. That Ivan guy never loved her. He jsut became obsessed with the notion of having someone pay attention to her all the time. She liked that notion that someone somewhere else was always thinking of her and sending her texts and pics. And now if she's going out with Jessica, then either she genuinly likes her and puts you on the back burner for when jessica messes up. or once again she just likes the attention.
You will find someone else, someone who likes you and just you. You are young, and smarter than this. Be a friend if she needs it, but never put her first. Go find a date have fun for yourself. If she trys to call you or text you during this ignore it. she just wants to steal your attention.
My "girlfriend" in love with me and another guy? (kinda long story)
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I agree with Fullhouse.
I think that this girl is just a drama/ attention whore.
First off when it comes to your heart/feelings you need to be selfish. Yes consider others feelings, but you should never be unhappy or hurt because of someone else. She doesn't love you, and maybe one day she will but, I dont think you should cling to that hope. That Ivan guy never loved her. He jsut became obsessed with the notion of having someone pay attention to her all the time. She liked that notion that someone somewhere else was always thinking of her and sending her texts and pics. And now if she's going out with Jessica, then either she genuinly likes her and puts you on the back burner for when jessica messes up. or once again she just likes the attention.
You will find someone else, someone who likes you and just you. You are young, and smarter than this. Be a friend if she needs it, but never put her first. Go find a date have fun for yourself. If she trys to call you or text you during this ignore it. she just wants to steal your attention.