she shouldn’t have it. they’re not dating anymore AND she’s in a new relationship so she has no right to his body, and vice versa. the top comment calls this a “fond memory”, but its really not. she can have memory of her exes and still have old pictures or mementos, but continuing to carry videos of sex with them is a serious red flag. if you’re okay with it, whatever. but if you’re not okay with it then don’t even bother asking for this websites opinion on it; you have a right to your feelings and you can set any boundaries that make you comfortable.
my girlfriend has a video of herself having sex with an ex-boyfriend
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she shouldn’t have it. they’re not dating anymore AND she’s in a new relationship so she has no right to his body, and vice versa. the top comment calls this a “fond memory”, but its really not. she can have memory of her exes and still have old pictures or mementos, but continuing to carry videos of sex with them is a serious red flag. if you’re okay with it, whatever. but if you’re not okay with it then don’t even bother asking for this websites opinion on it; you have a right to your feelings and you can set any boundaries that make you comfortable.