I didn't say it's okay for guys to have pictures or videos of their exes. I certainly don't have any. Nor do I ever miss my exes. And I also don't feel the need to be "desired" or "fondly remembered by them. To me an ex is an ex, the past is the past, and I have no desire whatsoever to hold on to that past as I am living in this moment and just want to make the best of it. I guess everyone deals with their past in their own way.
my girlfriend has a video of herself having sex with an ex-boyfriend
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I didn't say it's okay for guys to have pictures or videos of their exes. I certainly don't have any. Nor do I ever miss my exes. And I also don't feel the need to be "desired" or "fondly remembered by them. To me an ex is an ex, the past is the past, and I have no desire whatsoever to hold on to that past as I am living in this moment and just want to make the best of it. I guess everyone deals with their past in their own way.