I don't think this is normal after 4 months. The stage when she's nervous because she's so infatuated should be over now.
I really can't tell what the problem might be, though, because what the nature of the nervousness is. Is it worry that she'll do something that you won't like? Is it fear that you'll betray her emotionally? Is it need for approval? Is it fear that you'll physically hurt her? Hard to say. Has she been hurt or abused in the past?
Regardless, I think you might want to talk to her about this, or suggest that she or both of you talk to a therapist about it. Sometimes anxiety doesn't have a specific cause or is caused by an anxiety disorder, but it's still important to deal with it.
My girlfriend feels nervous around me
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I don't think this is normal after 4 months. The stage when she's nervous because she's so infatuated should be over now.
I really can't tell what the problem might be, though, because what the nature of the nervousness is. Is it worry that she'll do something that you won't like? Is it fear that you'll betray her emotionally? Is it need for approval? Is it fear that you'll physically hurt her? Hard to say. Has she been hurt or abused in the past?
Regardless, I think you might want to talk to her about this, or suggest that she or both of you talk to a therapist about it. Sometimes anxiety doesn't have a specific cause or is caused by an anxiety disorder, but it's still important to deal with it.
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Beating me to the punch-line. Every time. :)
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Haha, thanks. I do try. :D