It's wonderful how honest with yourself you are, many would get so upset being conflicted and lash out.
You know yourself better than anyone, so you already have the answer you need whether it's the one you want or not.
From what I see from your original post and this reply, you're unsure about her, but love being financially secure. We all dream of having enough money to just keep our head above water, but you're actually on a boat, which is way more than any average person can ask for.
Personally, I wouldn't break up just yet, and still give it another year, because realistically you hardly know her or the interworkings of her mind, and you have yet to see and understand her flaws; but luckily that develops with time/communication, and living together is a great opportunity for that. So hold off on the baby talk for a while. Good luck man!
My girlfriend doesn't want kids but I do? Can I convince her later?
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It's wonderful how honest with yourself you are, many would get so upset being conflicted and lash out.
You know yourself better than anyone, so you already have the answer you need whether it's the one you want or not.
From what I see from your original post and this reply, you're unsure about her, but love being financially secure. We all dream of having enough money to just keep our head above water, but you're actually on a boat, which is way more than any average person can ask for.
Personally, I wouldn't break up just yet, and still give it another year, because realistically you hardly know her or the interworkings of her mind, and you have yet to see and understand her flaws; but luckily that develops with time/communication, and living together is a great opportunity for that. So hold off on the baby talk for a while. Good luck man!