It basically comes down to who is willing to sacrifice and be unhappy. Same situation with my fiancé and I. I don’t want them, he use to tell me he never wanted them and all of a sudden now he does some day. I was so set on not having kids and I thought I’d found someone who was also ok with no children. He changed his mind, maybe I’ll change mine to some day??? Honestly though, I don’t think I will. I do however think I will be the one to make the sacrifice and just have a kid with him, however that doesn’t mean it will be bad in the future right? Idk I say good luck on changing her mind. But always wonder “did she change her mind, or did she just give in to make you happy?”
Good point. In this situation what often happens is someone compromised to save the relationship, and then secretly regrets it and just puts on a brave face.
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It basically comes down to who is willing to sacrifice and be unhappy. Same situation with my fiancé and I. I don’t want them, he use to tell me he never wanted them and all of a sudden now he does some day. I was so set on not having kids and I thought I’d found someone who was also ok with no children. He changed his mind, maybe I’ll change mine to some day??? Honestly though, I don’t think I will. I do however think I will be the one to make the sacrifice and just have a kid with him, however that doesn’t mean it will be bad in the future right? Idk I say good luck on changing her mind. But always wonder “did she change her mind, or did she just give in to make you happy?”
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Good point. In this situation what often happens is someone compromised to save the relationship, and then secretly regrets it and just puts on a brave face.