My girlfriend doesn't want kids but I do? Can I convince her later?

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  • Well that's my life with her she got a 1.8 million inheritance from family and she gets money assisting her mom in the business here and there so we're set for life. I can't say what it would be like without luxury because that's just how life is with her. We haven't really had much down time only a few times here and there otherwise we just go out and travel.

    I just started living with her so I can't say yet what it's like. The only two things are she's a little bossy sometimes and she doesn't want children. Also I guess we don't share many common interests unfortunately but travel is an interest.

    Maybe I am seeing it with rose colored glasses but how would I know.

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    • It's wonderful how honest with yourself you are, many would get so upset being conflicted and lash out.

      You know yourself better than anyone, so you already have the answer you need whether it's the one you want or not.

      From what I see from your original post and this reply, you're unsure about her, but love being financially secure. We all dream of having enough money to just keep our head above water, but you're actually on a boat, which is way more than any average person can ask for.

      Personally, I wouldn't break up just yet, and still give it another year, because realistically you hardly know her or the interworkings of her mind, and you have yet to see and understand her flaws; but luckily that develops with time/communication, and living together is a great opportunity for that. So hold off on the baby talk for a while. Good luck man!

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