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my new girlfriend keeps asking me to spank her on her bare behind.
we a have been together for 6 months and are both in our 40's
is this normal, especially in view of her age ?
you should try licking her butt hole and sticking your finger in it, I bet she wants to do anal and that's the reason she likes being spanked...trying to draw emphasis to her butt
You should do as she asks, don’t be such a drip. But you do need to establish some rules. You should have a safe word and you should experiment with the intensity. Also does she want you to use your hand or some other implement such as a whip, slipper, paddle, etc. Is this just during sex play when she desires it, or is this something she wants you to do when you decide. What are the boundaries, you need to have a good talk about all of it, but you should definitely include it as part of your relationship if that is what she is asking for.
My best friend in the whole world wanted me to spank her. I did not want to because causing pain to someone is not something I would like. I tried a little and because it was a little spank she liked it and since it was gentle It was ok withme also. She was raised Catholic and I think she needed to be punished for the smallest impure thought.
Absolutely normal - and very cool. If you won't, give me the address. I'll come over and spank her silly!
yes so many people love being spanked myself included and it is just something a little spicy during sex