He will come around eventually but unfortunately you'll never be able to replace his father in terms of being a disciplinarian. And boys need that. You are going to have to take a softer approach to it by being a role model. Your GF is gonna have to discipline him more but dont let him hear you are telling her what kind of punishments to give to him. Maybe one day when he accepts you you can be that strong leader of the house but you will always have to be careful (by discipline I mean time outs, spankings, for writing on the wall or something silly boys do.). Be a good role model and teach him to be a man. He will model himself after you. Treat his mother well. He will come around.
My girlfriend’s kid doesn’t accept me
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He will come around eventually but unfortunately you'll never be able to replace his father in terms of being a disciplinarian. And boys need that. You are going to have to take a softer approach to it by being a role model. Your GF is gonna have to discipline him more but dont let him hear you are telling her what kind of punishments to give to him. Maybe one day when he accepts you you can be that strong leader of the house but you will always have to be careful (by discipline I mean time outs, spankings, for writing on the wall or something silly boys do.). Be a good role model and teach him to be a man. He will model himself after you. Treat his mother well. He will come around.