My gf is a-sexual we are lesbians, she seems open to sex

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My girl seems open to having sex with me but she said she will never initatiate sex with me and she hopes that I do any advice on how to go about this I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable maybe any A-sexual people who know about this first hand. Yes I am happy either way I don't need sex to make this work and I've told her that but sometimes she says things that tells me she's interested in having sex with me and I can't help but wonder if she just says these things to make me happy.

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    She's not asexual, she just has problems initiating sex, which is not the same thing. How to initiate? Slowly, staying aware of how she's responding

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Thanks this helps I just don't want to move too fast. She told me she's asexual I don't really know what she means by it.

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      • Ellenna
        6 years ago

        So ask her what she means by it

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    • Ellenna
      6 years ago

      Forgot to add: it sounds as if you're also having problems initiating sex, even though she seems to be giving you signals she'd like you to do so

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