Not sure how old you are but I am in my 40's and this has been the story of my life with pretty much any group of friends that I have been involved with. It seems like I get together with a few people who act like friends,initiate things and then just slack off. If I call to suggest something they are fine and happy to see me but then nothing until I initiate something again.So frustrating! Laziness? Familiarity breeds contempt? Fickle human nature? I don't know. This has happened with different groups of friends over time with the exception of just a few who have become close friends. Maybe this is the way people naturally are? I am not clingy or overbearing at all and am not in touch with them so frequently that they would want to avoid me. I am just as confused as you are. Especially those who have a child my child's age and our children are still friendly through school. Weird!!!
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Not sure how old you are but I am in my 40's and this has been the story of my life with pretty much any group of friends that I have been involved with. It seems like I get together with a few people who act like friends,initiate things and then just slack off. If I call to suggest something they are fine and happy to see me but then nothing until I initiate something again.So frustrating! Laziness? Familiarity breeds contempt? Fickle human nature? I don't know. This has happened with different groups of friends over time with the exception of just a few who have become close friends. Maybe this is the way people naturally are? I am not clingy or overbearing at all and am not in touch with them so frequently that they would want to avoid me. I am just as confused as you are. Especially those who have a child my child's age and our children are still friendly through school. Weird!!!