My friends don't seem to listen

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The last couple of years my best friend has had a growing obssession with this place and going there and now whenever i call her she's always there. I try really hard not to get annoyed about it but i have mentioned it to her. She seems to have become really close to my other friend and now neither of them seem to want to talk to me.
I don't know if i've done anything to upset them, other than ask my other friend what to do about it cause i think my best friend is in a mood and i think my other friend just thinks i'm b*tching about her.
But i don't want to b**ch about her but if i say anything to her face then she calls me a b*tch and gets angry with me.
None of my other friends really want to talk to me unless they have a problem of their own.
Maybe i'm a really horrible person and no one will tell me!

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago | pl

    You're not a horrible person - in fact, it sounds like you're too nice for your own good. It's quite common for these things to happen unfortunately. You're try to be tolerant and accepting and you try to help your so called friends, but they take advantage of that :(

    They're not proper friends if they're going to be like that. Friends DO listen and they don't take advantage of you.

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  • luckygirl1111
    12 years ago | pl

    I hate it when that happens! :( ditch them bitches! you are obviously too good for them since you are the one listening to their problems! get real friends. that'll treat you with r e s p e c t :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    if your a dude and shes friends with your dude friend then its obvious she only interested in the new shiney things but dont worry people like that get seen as slags in the end also dont worry about them if they have left u then go ahead and say you know what what ever because shes basicly being like everyother type of person and you should try find friends that are difrent makes it more fun

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago | pl

    I have the same problem -- at times. In that case, I really doubt that you are a horrible person, it's just that some people can be distracted by other people/things etc. You get the point.

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  • nikoleman
    14 years ago | pl

    Either that or you're not saying interesting things. Normally when these things happen shut up and listen to what happens around you.
    ASk yourself these questions:
    1) Are you talking all the time trying to get them to talk to you?
    2) Do you feel like when you talk they have a short attention span and then they drift their sight to check out the passing guy's packet?

    You're probably not a horrible person because you've already realized that somethings wrong. Now look outside your belly and try to figure out what you're doing wrong and compare yourself from when they used to listen to you to now. Let me know how that went afterwards

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