My friends a virgin

My friend thats a girl is a virgin. She is ugly and looks like a young burny sanders.
We've been platonic best mates now for years(shes lesbian)

shes been asking me for some lately, she says "I cant get any with girls and i dont want to be a virgin."
I dont know, I feel like I owe her as her best mate. Shes honest to god butt ass uggly.

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  • You never owe anyone sex. If she won’t respect your boundaries she’s not a real friend.

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    • I KNOW DATS RIGHT!!!

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    • Thank you for your thought,

      Normally she can keep her boundaries, but coming from a wild country family (the redneck type that wears camo and drinks beer like water), things often go down hill after a couple of cans.

      Maybe she has a problem, but beer is just culture to her family.

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  • You don't owe her sex and you shouldn't feel guilty for refusing it. That was asking way too much on her part. If you don't want to hurt her feelings though then you could just say that you think it'd be a bad idea cos it'd make things awkward.

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    • I appreciate the support JellyBean. I needed it, because she can be pushy. I did feel guilty.

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  • LOL. I don't think you should sleep with her if you don't want to. If one of my male friends told me they're a virgin and wanted to stop being a virgin with me i'd decline. If I wanted to sleep with them I wouldn't be friends with them.
    Plus it can mess up the friendship. I don't know how much you value this friendship but if you really like her as a friend you might come to regret that. Also it sounds very strange that a lesbian would ever consider sleeping with a man just to lose her virginity. A real lesbian wouldn't enjoy sex with a man or ever want it. Just imagine it yourself if you're straight, would you have sex with one of your guy pals just to stop being a virgin?...
    She's probably bisexual. Or lying about her sexuality altogether.

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    • You sound like a freaken prude you. 4/5 of Prude is rude

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      • Prude because I don't believe I owe guys sex. Alright pal. I think i'll happily stay prude then.

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        • I don't think anyone owes anyone sex, the world would just be more fun if more people randomly had sex with each other.

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    • These are some good thoughts to take home. I probably wont do it at this point.
      Thank you for the input

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  • OH HELL NO, BABY! Hell to tha no! This old gal may be a dear friend of yours, but make no mistake you don't owe her damn thang! When it comes to sex you have the right to tell anyone no for any reason you so choose. You never owe it to anyone to give them sex, and if someone acts entitled about wanting sex from you it's perfectly fine for you to tell that person no, and distance yourself from that person. No is a complete sentence!

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    • Your comments have been great.

      I'll definitely need to set some boundaries with her.

      Thank you for your support.

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  • Be her wingman at a club.

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    • Worried about the types of clubs she knows about...

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  • Does she need to lose weight, or need plastic surgery or both?

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    • I guess I exaggerated. But shes definitely not my type.

      Shes basically your sterotypical Butchy-Lesbian. A little chubby, short red hair. And her official uniform is camo pants, a t-shirt, and a beer in one hand.

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  • Hell no, no sleeping with uggos.

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    • I would feel bad about the bernie joke if I found out she was jewish✡ (I know shes not)

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  • Is this post real? It feels like trolling.

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  • You do not owe her anything. However you can accept or refuse depending on how you feel. You did not speciffied your sex but regardless of that, do what you feel YOU want

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  • You dont owe anyone sex. It's her problem that she's single and can't get laid, not yours. XD

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  • Tell her to wear a stormy danle mask and blind fold ur self, play some porn in the back ground and try not to cringe challenge starts

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  • No let her fix it. Its definently tough being a lesbian to get laid but what can she do? Don't feel like you owe it to her give her a vibrator and say leave me outta this.

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