Live and let live I guess. I myself don't agree with the way your friend is being brought up, but it is her life and if people are going to take advantage of her in the future, then so be it. The best way to help someone grow is by letting them make their own mistakes and learn from them on their own. The best thing you can do is to be supportive and be there for her when she needs it (and not by trying to change her ways, mind you.) This is really one of those situations that nobody has control over except for your friend. Just be yourself and let the chips fall as they may.
My friend's mom is ruining her life.
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Live and let live I guess. I myself don't agree with the way your friend is being brought up, but it is her life and if people are going to take advantage of her in the future, then so be it. The best way to help someone grow is by letting them make their own mistakes and learn from them on their own. The best thing you can do is to be supportive and be there for her when she needs it (and not by trying to change her ways, mind you.) This is really one of those situations that nobody has control over except for your friend. Just be yourself and let the chips fall as they may.