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my friend's always like 'oh i gotta lose weight' and she exercises and stuff but she's pretty anyway.. but she makes me feel guilty by being all healthy and it makes me want to go make myself throw up to try and be like her
i'm sick of trying to be like other people and i wish i could find out what I'M like but i'm weird and no-one will like me..
is it normal
Well if you really wanted to be like her you wouldnt consider throwing up to lose weight, you'd go to the gym and be healthy. She is actually being a positive influence if you take it the right way, maybe you could actually go train with her rather than taking the lazy/stupid ass way out of throwing up.
My sister is the same as ur friend and me n u think the same my sister always says man I need to loose wait when she has a very fit boby
tip: never try to be like anyone else. the more and more you try, the more and more you'll never get there. which will just make you feel worse about yourself. try doing something crazy when you're alone. like turn on some promiscuous lady gaga song and dance wearing your most flattering clothes in the middle of the night. then wake up the next day and feel like a beast because you had so much more fun than anyone else did. lol i do that when I see ridiculously fit and skinny people. and when i do that, i see myself as just as skinny. :)
maybe you have a low self confidence...give it up imitating other people and focus on youself. you should find out what are your interests and take care of youself. do you like reading? if you do , go to a library and buy a couple of books. do you like practicing any sports? enrol at a gym or a swimming pool. do you like acting? enrol at a drama school...do things that make u feel good