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One day i went over to my friends house to go out to dinner with her for a girls night. When i went over she was smoking, when we were about 15 we made a promise to each other we would never smoke or do drugs when i reminded her she said that was something when we were little girls. Am i normal for not wanting to be around her anymore? what should i do?
Tell her what can happen to her when taking drugs. If she's not an idiot shell stop
like chairs sed if her personality hasnt changed then shes still kindof the same person.If you have drifted appart and theres no gonig back it is hard to forget about a really good friend i have had to do it several times but thats the way of life you can always leave on a good note dont be hastey or your friend will become your enemy and that hurts even more.
if you feel her personality has changed then you should stop spending time with her. unless you are allergic to cigarette smoke and can;t be around it, which I understand because a friend of mine is, then her smoking is really her own choice to make. 15 is young and things do change. Plus, it's not like she's killed someone.
i think you should respect the fact that people change. i said once that i wouldnt smoke or drink. DOUBLE FAIL. whatever man... perspective change. especially after during puberty and adolescence
say stop smoking or were done she no stop its over she does u pretend that never happend
I don't think that not wanting to take drugs or smoke is a "little girl" thing. Some people start smoking much early. And I definetly DO NOT think that smoking is a sign of maturity in any way, quite the opposite actually! resisting the temptation, remaining with your principles and caring about your health IS a sign of maturity. I would react in exactly the same way if I were in your place.
See im alergic too something in cigarette so i cant hang around ppl like that either. and 15 is a pretty young age to keep promises like that. but just ignore it and if u guys r like bff or something ask her not to do when ur around its always easier to be honest
You were 15. Shit happens. If you don't want to be her friend because she smokes I'd question yourself if you ever really were friends to begin with because you're sounding pretty shallow.