It's not normal for a friend to abuse you. It's not normal for anyone to abuse you. That sort of abusive relationship isn't nice and is against the human rights. If you want to stay friends with her (which I think you shouldn't but it's really your decision) then you should listen and stop annoying her when she says stop. If you tell her to stop threatening you and she keeps threatening you, she's no friend of yours.
I know you're scared, and maybe don't know how to deal with this, but you've got to be brave and stand up for yourself for once. Don't let her bully you because nobody has the right to bully you.
Threatening people is wrong and she's threatening you which is wrong. You should leave the relationship if you're able to. Talk to someone who can look out for you, someone you can trust and turn to when she does hurt you. Be aware of her reactions and take note of the body language cues when she's about to threaten you or about to strike. Does she get tense just before she threatens you? Does she curl her fists or make angry faces? Be ready to avoid getting hurt if you can.
And maybe, when it's safe and she's calm, suggest to her gently that she could talk to someone (like a teacher or a person who would listen. Maybe talk to you?) about her feelings too. I'd imagine that she has lots of stuff going on that needs dealing with and someone to understand her and guide her to know that there are other ways to deal with anger without resorting to physical, emotional, and verbal abuse.
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It's not normal for a friend to abuse you. It's not normal for anyone to abuse you. That sort of abusive relationship isn't nice and is against the human rights. If you want to stay friends with her (which I think you shouldn't but it's really your decision) then you should listen and stop annoying her when she says stop. If you tell her to stop threatening you and she keeps threatening you, she's no friend of yours.
I know you're scared, and maybe don't know how to deal with this, but you've got to be brave and stand up for yourself for once. Don't let her bully you because nobody has the right to bully you.
Threatening people is wrong and she's threatening you which is wrong. You should leave the relationship if you're able to. Talk to someone who can look out for you, someone you can trust and turn to when she does hurt you. Be aware of her reactions and take note of the body language cues when she's about to threaten you or about to strike. Does she get tense just before she threatens you? Does she curl her fists or make angry faces? Be ready to avoid getting hurt if you can.
And maybe, when it's safe and she's calm, suggest to her gently that she could talk to someone (like a teacher or a person who would listen. Maybe talk to you?) about her feelings too. I'd imagine that she has lots of stuff going on that needs dealing with and someone to understand her and guide her to know that there are other ways to deal with anger without resorting to physical, emotional, and verbal abuse.
I wish you the best of luck. Be safe.