My fience wants a game room!?

Hi, me and my fience just moved in to a nice house in the suburbs and he asked my permission to do someting I found really weird. He has big video game hobby, I knew that from the beginning but he always put his games in a dvd cabinet with closed doors so I never saw them laying around the apartment all anyone could see were the game consoles themselves (Not all of them, cause he has a LOT but the ones he was using were out). And we like I said we just moved into a house and he asked me if he could turn the basement into a game room or something where he could put all of his stuff on display, to me that just sounded a little bit too geeky but again I wasn't really planning on using the basement for anything huge. He's not a lazy slob or a anything but when it comes to video games he can be really geeky and it's a major interest of his, he collects old and new stuff for it. He has always allowed me to decorate around my piano any way I wanted to and that's a big hobby of mine, should I let him do it? Is it at all normal?

From anonymous 24 yr old female

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  • I can't believe that you have a "fiance" and don't even know how to spell it properly. Most women, even younger than you can spell that word correctly. It's all they ever talk about. Your grammar is terrible as well. Do yourself a favor and work on learning *proper English.

    The gameroom thing is pretty normal. Let him do it.

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    • your right she should go and fuck her shelf.
      Did you ever stop to think maybe her first language isn't English, maybe she's French or something.
      That said her English is still much better than your average Yank.

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  • So normal. Everyone guy I know wants a "man cave." Let him do it, he'll love you for it.

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  • What's all this 'let him do it', is he gdp child or dog or something
    Imagine the uproar if a man was asking should gd let his woman do something similar especially if she was infact doing it herself.Would you all be saying let her / don't let her do it? no there would be so uproar! Also what is the alternative? fill the basement with concrete so it doesn't exist anymore and can't be used for anything by anyone or slap his bottom and send him to bed early?

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  • let him do it. if you dont, hell just put all that stuff in your room or the living room. and he'll think you're the greatest "FIANCE" on earth

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  • Oops, hubby, not hubbu! Lol

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  • I've been naggin at my hubbu to PLEASE build out the basement for a game ro, have become a video gamer myself! Give it a shot, now we play together and kick pretty serious ass! Has made our marriage stronger too. Been 13 years!

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  • I agree with the first caller...

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  • What's wrong with that? Guys will be guys, they will do stuff like that. If you don't mind it, yeah, sure, let him do it. If anything, this will only improve your marriage and he will love you for giving him the space he needs.

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    • ...and if she DOES mind it, she probably shouldn't marry the dude in the first place.

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