My fiances sister-in-law(his bros wife) is insane??

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So, before meeting her, I talked to her on facebook and yahoo messenger, but she only talks about her son or my fiances younger sister/her sis-in-law/mine to be and it does annoy me because I want to get to know her too.

Okay, a month later my sister in law to be stops talking to me and i ask her whats up. she tells me that she hates how i always talk about her with her sisin law.. i said i never talk about you, she was the one talking about you. and she said thats not what she told me. she says that you said i was weird.. and at this point, i go nuts because the sister in law was the one who called her weird, NOT ME and i just say oh really? i didnt even agree with the sis in law.

okay, then i went to meet the sis in law for the first time and she talks way too much like i said so i sat there for 1 hour of pure hell in the restaurant while she talked ONLY about herself, her son and her sister in law/mine to be.

now 3 months go by and now my sis in law to be is not talking to me anymore i asked her why and she told me that the sister in law told her that i was talking about her nonstop when i met her.

I SWEAR ON MY LIFE AND I HAVE MY FIANCE as my witness that i didnt even say anything at all the entire time except for mhm yea mhm yeah.. I JUST LISTENED.

so i told her i swear i never even opened my mouth and she said whatever i hate liars, dont pretend you never talked about me. she doesnt lie to me.

IM PISSED OFF BECAUSE the sister in law made all these lies up about me... andwhy?!??!1 she doesnt know me..i asked my fiance to ask the sister in law what she thought of me and she said
"she talks too much about your sister/my sisinlaw to be" and he said "no she doesnt" and she said "every time we talk even when i met her, thats all she could talk about"

what a freak!!!! he was there and he knwos i didnt say 1 WORD!!!

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  • emkayily
    12 years ago | pl

    Ooh. Yeah. That's a bummer. A few years ago my brother started dating a girl who was a little obnoxious. She always talked during movies and she talked a lot. She talked about useless things all the time. However, I didn't give her a hard time or talk bad about her. One day my daughter (who was very young at the time) walked out into the living room with someone's underwear on her head like she got into some laundry. I was sitting on the couch with my cousin and I said, "gross! take those off I don't know who's it is or if it's clean!" This all happened at my mom's house as we were all staying there at the time. Anyway later that night my brother told me, "why were you saying things about my gf (don't want to say her name)? She said that you guys were making fun of her and calling her gross." So from that day on I knew she was crazy because the only thing I said was gross was that my daughter had underwear on her head. I didn't even know if it was my mom's or not. After that we started having problems until months later some pretty heavy stuff went down. Anytime you come across someone who accuses you of something based on lies, all you can do is walk away. Don't waste your breath. As long as you know the truth and your fiance knows the truth that is all that matters. Even if she starts to believe you, who's to say it won't happen again? Could you really ever trust that person?

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago | pl

    WTF? You're not marrying her - you're marrying your fiancee and that doesn't mean you have to talk to or even like the bitch. Give her a wide berth if she's a trouble maker. Chances are her family already know what she is like so don't let it bother you.

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago | pl

    Welcome to the in-law drama. You're going to have to learn to ignore it or it will make you crazy. Don't worry so much about what they think of you. The best thing you can do is smile, nod, and mhmm your way through family get-togethers.

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