My fiance never wants to make love

Disconnect the internet then see how long it takes him to initiate so called love making.

I used to have a habit of jerking off every night when I was single, it helped me sleep. It was a hard habit to break, but I found that I just didn't have enough left for my gf and if we did get it on I found it hard to cum. I still jerk off, but only once or twice a week, sometimes less and my sex life with my gf is great now.

So the question is being clear about whats important to both of you and working it out.

Its very sad that your fiance is in the habit of masturbating so regularly that it is interfering with your sex life. Unfortunately it does happen.

I don't know what the answer is and yes you do stop initiating sex when you constantly get turned down. Its getting up the courage to try and talk openly about it without stressing. Have you offered to find some porn to share?

In the end though its down to your fiance to take responsibility for his own behaviour and then both of you work to improve things. Sex is not the most important thing, but lack of it, or lack of satisfaction can lead to all sorts of problems if not dealt with.

You're ugly, possibly fat, definitely uninteresting.

I think it's time for some couples counselling.

Looks like he prefers sex on his own than with you, not a good start sorry. He needs to decide whats more important and you need to find out what would help him change this habit.