Sounds to me like he's using you for something - think, how would being married to you (or anyone) benefit him?
The fact that he only made love to you while courting and is no longer interested now you've agreed to marry him suggests he either doesn't really fancy you (unlikely given your self-description), has someone else he wants to be faithful to, or is gay, or some combination of those.
I suspect he's gay, but desperately wants to hide this fact from others - which is why he's always been seen with hot girls and is now marrying one. His angry denial and weak defence (why would I marry you if I was gay?) both fit in with this.
I have very little sympathy for people who force someone to live a lie with them. You must confront him about it before it's too late - if it isn't already! You don't need to accuse him of anything, just get a full and honest answer as to why he's gone cold. If he refuses to answer or comes up with a pile of bull, call off the wedding. If he tells the truth? Up to you!
My fiance has become cold!
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Sounds to me like he's using you for something - think, how would being married to you (or anyone) benefit him?
The fact that he only made love to you while courting and is no longer interested now you've agreed to marry him suggests he either doesn't really fancy you (unlikely given your self-description), has someone else he wants to be faithful to, or is gay, or some combination of those.
I suspect he's gay, but desperately wants to hide this fact from others - which is why he's always been seen with hot girls and is now marrying one. His angry denial and weak defence (why would I marry you if I was gay?) both fit in with this.
I have very little sympathy for people who force someone to live a lie with them. You must confront him about it before it's too late - if it isn't already! You don't need to accuse him of anything, just get a full and honest answer as to why he's gone cold. If he refuses to answer or comes up with a pile of bull, call off the wedding. If he tells the truth? Up to you!