My fiance has become cold!

Um... There's someone else.

There's deff someone else.

yup, there's someone else. sorry darling :(

I agree ^

Doesn't sound right, especially with his obfuscation. My fiance is in another country and we make time to talk dirty almost every day.

Either it's cooled off for him or he's seeing someone else, which means the same for you.

He's cheating

Break the engagement because something is wrong. He is probably gay and does anal sex with men.

Its not all about the looks, maybe he find you boring and he is probably cheating on you!

girl leave him cuz one he is most likely cheating second dont really fancy you and just using you or third you got DOUBTS!!! thats enough to dont marry the guy! you gonna feel better afterwards trust me!

Sounds to me like he's using you for something - think, how would being married to you (or anyone) benefit him?

The fact that he only made love to you while courting and is no longer interested now you've agreed to marry him suggests he either doesn't really fancy you (unlikely given your self-description), has someone else he wants to be faithful to, or is gay, or some combination of those.

I suspect he's gay, but desperately wants to hide this fact from others - which is why he's always been seen with hot girls and is now marrying one. His angry denial and weak defence (why would I marry you if I was gay?) both fit in with this.

I have very little sympathy for people who force someone to live a lie with them. You must confront him about it before it's too late - if it isn't already! You don't need to accuse him of anything, just get a full and honest answer as to why he's gone cold. If he refuses to answer or comes up with a pile of bull, call off the wedding. If he tells the truth? Up to you!

Good thing you havent married yet.

maybe he doesn't want to do the naughty because his feelings changed?

time to pull a lorena bobbit and cut it off bcuz hes a worthless and should be a woman

He is fucking many other chicks probably because you are annoying. There will be no wedding ! FAIL

Geneva! Ur so freakin weirdo! There will b a wedding whether u like it or not! u can keep ur bitchy mean comments burried in ur nasty heart! Thx :)

Looks aren't everything but he does sound very rude and uninterested. He might very well be having an affair and it sounds like there won't be a wedding.

He could be going through depression. When a person becomes depressed, sometimes they lose all interest in sex. If I was you I would try to initiate the dirty talk, you start it first. Communicate your wants/needs to him. He isn't a mind reader and can only know if you talk to him about what's on your mind!

Best of Luck to you,
Sincerely, John C K

Baby, he has cheated u, he has got a new pussy for his dick..i am so sorry!

i agree with everyone else but if hes not having an affair mayb you guys are moving to fast and he doesnt want to say anything because he doesnt wanna hurt you and thats effecting his drive to be dirty or maybe hes afraid you will notice something about him he is embarrassed of or hes gay you never know sorry im not much help

No offense, but you sound very naive. Why would a gay man marry you? Why, to be "normal," of course. Gay guys do it all the time. Unfortunately, most women don't get GLARING CLUES that something is wrong.

Whether he's gay, cheating, or just not interested, you're about to begin a very brief and sexless marriage. Ditch this sucker while you still have a super model body.

you sound really annoying.

Sex is a physical thing and an emotional thing. You're hot. So that just leaves an emotional problem...

You should be on the edge of leaving him right now. Good thing you're not married yet. Have a talk with him, you don't not want this treatment for the rest of your life. You want to be appreciated.

Well I think he is gay not cheating because if he was cheating he would have slept with u because as u described urself u sound like a catch so even if he was cheating he would still want to have sex (unless he doesn't fancy you)and I see that his anger when u acussed him of being mad he was scard that his cover will be shattered. So I think you should take to him about it and pour to him all your thoughts out and if his answer was reasonable then u decide but if it was anotherlist of bullshit go ahead and call of the wedding

She's cheatin man. Kick her to the curb.

It is normal

Gay

Thx fadina for ur comment !

Thank you for ur honesty nd for taking much time in ur reply! Appreciate it!

Well as for gay i dnt think so since he had the hottest girlfriends all his life, and why would he marry me if he was gay?! He could stay single and fool around as much as he wants! When i told him my doubts about him being gay, he got sooo angry nd denied it saying if he was he wouldnt be in love with me or even think of getting married!!! God! I wish i can find out before its too late!

He sounds like a wierdo or he's gay

He's cheating. FoSho.

Cheating.

Our wedding is very soon! And i cant find a tangible proof about his unfaithfulness!

he's lucky to have you but it sounds like he's being a douche...