One side of the story is all anyone will ever get. Now that this has been going on for nine years, this particular son's inheritance will go directly to his kids. He will only be eligible for sentimental items from the estate. He knows this but has no interest in changing things.
She would say that a minority of people on Planet Earth don't deserve to live. Not because of how they live or what they have done, but because of the way they were when they were born. People like this deserve to suffer. Unfortunately, this includes some of her in-laws. (She would say this in her far away voice like the cat-in-the-hat.)
My son would say that just the sound of my voice brings him to the edge of physical violence. He is not violent, nor does he have violent tendencies. I think it's just intense hatred, mostly from normal adolescent discipline in response to him smashing up his car every couple of weeks in high school. He is narcissistic and hates people who think he is wrong.
I'm speculating here, because she has never said anything. But she has phobias. Lots of them. And, she seems to be able to compartmentalize as well as Nazis did in WWII. The point is that with people like her, you can never know anything, because they share nothing with everybody. She will also use the most unlikely occurrences of events as confirmation bias for whatever she wants to think.
Honestly, total alienation probably is the best policy. But my granddaughters (16, 14) were pleading with her to get permission talk to me at the last wedding in the family. She told them it was forbidden. Poor kids.
My family is poisoning me
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Yeah, I dunno, I'm only getting one side of the story.
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One side of the story is all anyone will ever get. Now that this has been going on for nine years, this particular son's inheritance will go directly to his kids. He will only be eligible for sentimental items from the estate. He knows this but has no interest in changing things.
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Well, what do you suppose they would say if they could speak for themselves, and their actions?
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She would say that a minority of people on Planet Earth don't deserve to live. Not because of how they live or what they have done, but because of the way they were when they were born. People like this deserve to suffer. Unfortunately, this includes some of her in-laws. (She would say this in her far away voice like the cat-in-the-hat.)
My son would say that just the sound of my voice brings him to the edge of physical violence. He is not violent, nor does he have violent tendencies. I think it's just intense hatred, mostly from normal adolescent discipline in response to him smashing up his car every couple of weeks in high school. He is narcissistic and hates people who think he is wrong.
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Damn!
What does she mean, by the way some people were when they were born?
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I'm speculating here, because she has never said anything. But she has phobias. Lots of them. And, she seems to be able to compartmentalize as well as Nazis did in WWII. The point is that with people like her, you can never know anything, because they share nothing with everybody. She will also use the most unlikely occurrences of events as confirmation bias for whatever she wants to think.
Honestly, total alienation probably is the best policy. But my granddaughters (16, 14) were pleading with her to get permission talk to me at the last wedding in the family. She told them it was forbidden. Poor kids.