Sounds to me your problem is that you're stuck in the middle. From my perspective it seems that your dad either has suspicions that you're not his child since your mom has a bf now and probably did then, so he resents being saddled with a kid that isn't his. Where you probably are his child since it sounds like your mom is using you as a surrogate for her frustration with him, whether either of them hate you because of those reasons I cant say. I do not believe however you should hate your siblings, nor do they really hate you, children tend to take cues from their parents, if the parent acts a certain way the child believes it's ok for them to act like that to. Usually they will grow out of it so I don't think they will be like that forever as long as you do respond badly to them. Now about not talking to tour parents, I think it may be a good idea to take some time off from them for awhile. If they try to initiate contact don't shut them out but only continue it if it's healthy for you. Eventually they may see the error of their ways, and if they don't then you've already put distance between you and them and they won't have as large an effect on you.
my family hates me iin?
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Sounds to me your problem is that you're stuck in the middle. From my perspective it seems that your dad either has suspicions that you're not his child since your mom has a bf now and probably did then, so he resents being saddled with a kid that isn't his. Where you probably are his child since it sounds like your mom is using you as a surrogate for her frustration with him, whether either of them hate you because of those reasons I cant say. I do not believe however you should hate your siblings, nor do they really hate you, children tend to take cues from their parents, if the parent acts a certain way the child believes it's ok for them to act like that to. Usually they will grow out of it so I don't think they will be like that forever as long as you do respond badly to them. Now about not talking to tour parents, I think it may be a good idea to take some time off from them for awhile. If they try to initiate contact don't shut them out but only continue it if it's healthy for you. Eventually they may see the error of their ways, and if they don't then you've already put distance between you and them and they won't have as large an effect on you.