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Shortly after a painful breakup, my ex says she missed me just like before and she wish she can take back the words she said to me.
What does it mean? Can I make a move to to get her back, cos I know she haven't found anyone yet anyway.
Could mean anything. You don't really give any context.
If she said something hurtful to you during the breakup or after, she might just regret saying it.
You can care deeply about an ex while not being romantically into them anymore, so it doesn't have to mean anything special.
The only way you could know is to examine her behaviour towards you and how your relationship ended etc.
Your ex is your ex for a reason so don't take her back. See therapist for a few sessions, read books about getting over an ex, maybe take a class, and or start a new exercise routine, but whatever you do don't take back the ex. Being single ain't gonna kill you.
Depends really on the relationship itself on how it was before y'all broke up. Everyones situations are different. It depends if she really means it, or are y'all going to be one of those couples who are on & off again every so often...
Trust me it gets tiring after while, so nip it in the bud now if you truly believe this situation won't work out. Think rationally with your head n not your heart. Easier said than done ik but just try :)
"she missed me just like before"
That makes it sound like this isn't the first breakup you two have been through.
If she regrets what she said, maybe you could get back together. But if she's one of those people who secretly enjoys the soap-opera dramatics of huge arguments and tragic breakups to such an extent that she refuses to deal with relationship tensions in a more mature way, I'd suggest you should be looking at a move in any direction other than back towards her.