In my opinion... he's mentally unhealthy and unsafe for you to be around.
If you haven't dumped him yet, you should. Even if you think he's going to cut himself over it.
That's NOT a reason to stay with someone.... because if he knows cutting himself may work to keep you around, he may use it to control you in other ways.
if you haven't pressed charges of rape you should talk to the police.
He should be either in jail or in a hospital. Or both.
And for you - seriously. Seek rape-crisis counseling. You've been raped more than once, you need to learn how to avoid similar situations.
And self-defense / offense... so you can get free from someone if they try to force you. Seriously do NOT be afraid to hurt someone, even hurt them badly, if it means saving yourself from being raped again.
yeah i dumped him right away, and haven't saw or spoken to him in about 2years sense it happened.. I rarely date or go out anymore & I get therapy regularly.
My ex raped me, then cut himself.. I'm confused. IIN?
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In my opinion... he's mentally unhealthy and unsafe for you to be around.
If you haven't dumped him yet, you should. Even if you think he's going to cut himself over it.
That's NOT a reason to stay with someone.... because if he knows cutting himself may work to keep you around, he may use it to control you in other ways.
if you haven't pressed charges of rape you should talk to the police.
He should be either in jail or in a hospital. Or both.
And for you - seriously. Seek rape-crisis counseling. You've been raped more than once, you need to learn how to avoid similar situations.
And self-defense / offense... so you can get free from someone if they try to force you. Seriously do NOT be afraid to hurt someone, even hurt them badly, if it means saving yourself from being raped again.
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yeah i dumped him right away, and haven't saw or spoken to him in about 2years sense it happened.. I rarely date or go out anymore & I get therapy regularly.
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o good!
I do hope you find someone who treats you as wonderfully as you deserve.
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