My ex is being rude to me
We did not break up because something happened in the relationship, she just is not able to see me anymore because her parents won’t let her. I have done all the wrong things such as trying to contact her on social media, appearing needy, apologizing over and over. I
reached out to her this morning with a true final apology on instagram. But then I randomly came across a post by her guy friend and I thought she was in it. The camera was pointing down so I couldn’t see a face but there was a girl in addidas pants which she always wears that I thought was her. That set me off and was like wait she told me she couldn’t date
what the heck? So I unsent my apology and asked if it was her in the post. She told me it wasn’t her and to “leave me the f alone weirdo” I threatened to put our personal movie on the internet if it turned out she was lying to me and she was dating again. Obviously that was not the right way to go about it but I was angry. Before I sent the apology I was blocked on everything so I had to make another account to message her. Before all of this she did make it clear that it was over and I kept reinitiating contact because I thought there was still a chance. You might be wondering well why would you try and get together knowing she couldn’t date. Well she will be 18 in 5 months and we would be able to date again. I wasn’t trying to get back with her, I was just trying to be friendly and stay in contact. Maybe I am the bad guy in all of this but I don’t think anyone deserves to be called a weirdo and all kinds of names because they want to talk to someone. I tried and i’m done with her now. What I was trying to get her to understand through all of this is my intent was never to be weird or to
bother her. She is not feeling the same pain I am and she doesn’t have to go through this painful emotional process that I do. I was hurt and making peace was her was all I ever wanted to heal myself but things always end up turning sour because I feel the need to get in contact again. I was NEVER rude to the extent she was. The worst thing I ever did was say she was deceptive as well as threatening to post the tape for being rude to me for making an effort to talk to her again.