my dog just died and bf wants to go out with his friends

Well, my bet would be he met another female to meet at the bar since you can't get in them. So if he goes, then tell him to just keep going out and not worry about you. He seems pretty insensitive since you just had to put your dog down. You didn't give his age, but remember guys under about 30-35 yrs old for the most part can't tell the truth if it bit them on their dick. He doesn't have any respect or compassion for you, why stay in a "whatever" it is you and him have. The Club also might just be a lie also, to go out with his buddies or to go meet up with another female he met somewhere. If hr has a cell phone, and if it has "Hangouts" in apps, activate that and it will tell on him about where he's at. I believe you have to be "friends" on it with your phone etc. Just don't be letting him use you for a place to get his rox off. Have more self respect. Good luck. I did vote normal because sadly these days to get treated like crap is almost normal by to many people with that fucked up "sense of entitlement" to do what how when and with who and they expect no resistance.