My daughter wants her boyfriend to come to her sleepover itn

My daughter is 15 and she has invited her three girls friends over but also wants her boyfriend to stay as well. She wants him to sleep on the floor in her room and promised nothing will happen. She is very trustworthy and I believe and trust her and her boyfriend, who is 16 is a good boy as well. She says it's normal these days for boys to stay over sometimes as well. Is this normal.

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  • LordTachanka

    Even if they do have sex it's probably best it's in your house and not somewhere gross and dirty or something like that.

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    • Janex1

      Some reply and say it is okay if my daughter has sex with this boy but I feel that I might be offering up my underage daughter on a plate to this older boy.
      She could easily join him on the floor in the night, maybe just to have innocent sexual touching or maybe sex.
      He is a handsome boy maybe all three girls plan to take their turn with him during the night. I may be responsible for allowing three 15yo girls to get themselves pregnant.Or they could be groped sleeping.

      Probably there will be just game kissing at most. Can I take the risk, I don't know.

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      • justlooking1976

        Why not just be upfront and ask what they want to happen? If they're looking for sex some guidance could be appreciated. I would have them all strip completely nude as soon as they get there and have them stay nude the entire time. Encourage them to play with themselves and each other. And if they want to fuck each other, great! At least they'll have a good experience in the process.

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      • UnabashedUser

        Any parent who allows this is open for all kinds of legal entanglements if someone is injured, gets pregnant, gags on cum, chokes on cock, gets VD, is dick-whipped in the kisser, asphyxiated by panties, chafed by a dildo etc. ad infinitum ad naseum.

        Don't do it.

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      • neopithair

        Tell your daughter about safe sex to make sure she (at least) doesn't get pregnant from this teenage gangbang. But in all seriousness, it's weird that you would expect your daughter to have a gross, gropey boyfriend. Maybe you should make your peace with him instead of jumping to bizarre, gangbangy conclusions...

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        • Janex1

          Okay,okay. Over reaction I know. I may just let her so what she and her boyfriend are going to do and try and make sure she is honest with me, what ever happens.

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      • Cheynicole

        That's a little to far😂I highly doubt that would happen

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      • SkullsNRoses

        Get "themselves" pregnant, lol.

        But anyway I doubt anything would happen with two other girls in the room but if it makes you uncomfortable say no, you're doing it for her own good not just to be horrible.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Just tell her no, if you're not comfortable. You don't owe it to her to give her permission to do anything and everything she wants to do.

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  • SpookyPancake

    Best case scenario, they will have good, clean fun. Worst case scenario, the party will turn into and orgy. Or maybe it's the other way around?

    Just kidding. With other girls around, the chance of fucking decreases unless they are doing it already anyway.

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  • mkr7

    He has seen me naked recently. One night a couple of weeks ago, me and his dad were having sex. I was on riding on top of him and the bedroom door was open and when I looked up, Nathan was standing at the side of the door watching. I was naked and facing him so he saw everything.
    His Dad didn't notice and I just waved him away with my hand but he just stood there staring. I couldn't stop, hid dad was fucking me like crazy, so I waved him away again and only then did he move away.
    i didn't tell his Dad, I thought it best he didn't know. He still doesn't.

    Anyway, the next day Nathan told me that he had got up to go for the bathroom, so I have to believe that was the reason he was standing there?
    Nathan's quite well developed for his age, As big as his Dad anyway. I know because I caught him masturbating in his room. It wasn't an accident that i walked in on him though, I knew what he as doing and thought I'd even the score. lol

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  • SmokeEverything

    Probably nothing is going to happen with other friends there. What's the worst that can happen, they have sex? If they're going to do it at a sleepover at your house it means they're already doing it anyway

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  • Janex1

    She's pretty besotted with him and I get the impression that all he need to do is click his fingers to get her into bed.

    She has mentioned that he really likes her and he's said he loves her.
    I have spotted them kissing in the porch after walking home from school and he was all hands, so he doesn't seem exactly slow at coming forward. I had to tactfully interrupt them because they were getting a little bit steamed up out there.

    It does seem strange talking about my teenage daughter like this because I'm basically saying that I'm handing her to him.

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  • mkr7

    Actually, his door was open and I must admit to being a little curious, so I didn't let him know I was there before I burst in. God you should have seen his face poor thing. lol.
    I've never seen a boy or man masturbate before, have you. sorry I dont know how old you are and I assume that you're a woman?
    Anyway, as I was saying, it is my first time watching and I really found it erotic. I would have expected him to be thrashing away, but he was really careful with long strokes, like I said, he's a big boy and it was real turn on.
    But no, I didn't walk in and ask him if he need a hand!!!

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  • mkr7

    I wear loose tops around the house and dont bother with a bra unless i go out and he's old enough to know where and when to look.
    As for seeing him, he does occasionally give me a sneaky show to show me that every things in working order!

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  • Cheynicole

    I would let her do it.But if your a little uncomfortable make her leave her door open at all times.

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  • Pathfinder27

    It is very possible that everything is innocent also. Who knows? If you trust her, then just ask her. Kids will be very upfront and honest. If hiding, or nervous then she may be defensive

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  • Pathfinder27

    Let her do it. Her gf's will be there. If they like him, they will let him do her... and maybe join in. She is well beyond the age of being a virgin.

    Would you rather it happens under your roof with her and her girlfriends with you in the next room and maybe stepping in? Or in some parking lot with him and his buddies pulling a train on her?

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    • 2CuriousGeorge2

      I know a lot of 15 year olds and older that are still virgins.

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  • I'll talk with her about my trust in her and I will allow him to stay. I suspect that she will sneak in with him and have some groping fun and fool around but I will need to hope that he respects her. And trust my daughter not to violate my trust.

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  • MarcusSG1

    Put cameras in your house where they'd be and enjoy conveniently interrupting them at timed kitchen stops

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    • Janex1

      That would be interesting?!

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      • MarcusSG1

        Just reinforcing the " I have eyes in the back of my head" myth. They don't need to know it's not real.

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  • Sunshinegirl

    It's only ok if you are also in the room.

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  • quivver

    yeah, it's normal.

    As normal as asking her bounce up and down on his crotch because he complains his balls are sore.

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  • randypete

    only if you can join them

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  • As previously mentioned if they do have sex then they are probably having it regularly away from your home so let the boy sleep over, get to know him better and have trust in you daughter. You know that at some point in the future if they have not already slept together that it will be only a matter of time

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  • EchoMaster

    Hell no.

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  • mkr7

    Yes, I'm 25yp and I have a step son who's a little bit younger than the mums daughter. He's 14 and definitely into girls. He's bad enough around me, let alone being left alone all night with three horny young minxes.

    I was was wondering if they had a guest room. Adds a new dimension to it if he can slip away in the middle of the night with the daughter to their own private room, where he could fuck Mummy's princess all night or if there is some sort of share pact going on, the girls could slip off one at a time to the spare room for their share of cute boy. And maybe if one was his sister, he'd save her until last...

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  • mkr7

    Umm Lisajane13, you were thinking along the same lines as me. What if one on those young girls was his sister, do you suppose she would patiently wait her turn with him. I was as horny as hell at that age,so if I'd been one of those young girls, I'd make the woman's daughter pay for my silence by making sure I joined in the fun.
    The mother did say he was a handsome boy!

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  • justlooking1976

    Only allow him over if she promises to have an orgy!

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  • Sarajeremy

    You're crazy. I'd never allow it

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  • Nopenotme

    Don't be a dumb parent or your ass will be a grandparent

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  • Columbusthegreat

    U would be making that dudes fantasy come true so that's pretty cool

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    SO... what happened?

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    • Janex1

      Oh, well. I agreed to let her sleep with him in the spare room. My daughter was a bit sheepish about the details of what happened and I haven't pushed her on it....but, she told me that they did have sex. And from the little that she has said, it appears that later in the night, one of the other girls had sex with the boy in the bathroom as well, although she wont say which one.
      My girl was taking protection and I hope to God that he other one was too.

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      • Pathfinder27

        It was inevitable. Good for and her friend!

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  • Janex1

    Okay, whats your e mail?

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  • Janex1

    Yes absolutely, she's very open with me and I know for sure that she's still a virgin but I know she wont be for much longer. I get the feeling she's so frustrated and then there is a lot of peer pressure.

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  • Slave2mywife69

    I will email you ;)

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  • Janex1

    Sorry about not replying earlier, Ives been busy.
    In answer to your question, after speaking a few times to my daughter about boys, i think it would be her that does the running, not the boy.
    I really do believe that they would have sex. Its just a matter of whether its going to happen under my roof or not. She tells me she's still a virgin so I assume nothing has gone on between them yet.
    As for the other girls, there is one called Olivia, that's a little bit, lets say "sexually aware" and she does seem to have an influence over my daughter. If anyone arranged for something to happen then I wouldn't put it past Olivia
    The two other girls are quiet enough and one is the boys sister so I think its safe to say that at least one of the girls is not involved if anything untoward happens.

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    • TheShyGirlFromWork

      Brothers and sisters have the most opportunities to have sex with each other... SO, maybe it's your daughter's boyfriend's sister who may have the most "influence" over your daughter (and the bf). When I was at that age, my brothers were drooling over me, and they kinda still do... but that's okay, because incest isn't bad, it's just taboo. I was a "good girl" when I was growing up, but also a "bad girl". I flirted heavily with my brothers, and I sucked and fucked my boyfriend every chance I got.

      My high school bf spent the night at my house (parents house) one night during a storm - him sleeping on the couch. They wouldn't let him drive home in a heavy storm. We had sex in my bedroom, and their bedroom door was open, so I'm sure they heard us, or suspected we did something, because we heard my mom get up, go the the kitchen (stay there for an unusual amount of time) then go back to bed. Of course, teen girls now days are more sexually educated, but hormones are still there.

      Honestly, the best way to make sure they don't have sex (for that night) is not let him stay the night. If he does stay the night, then the best way to make sure it doesn't happen is to give him a blowjob yourself (like, the best blowjob ever) - and of course, suck off and swallow. If you do the BJ, then he has his sexual release, and less likely to want your daughter. If my mom would have done that with my high school bf during that stormy night, he probably wouldn't have came into my room that night for sex. BUT, if you're unwilling to do that, then Yeah, just expect that your daughter and her boyfriend will fool around some (perhaps Olivia, his sister, and the other girl too).

      It's going to happen, and you know it. Oh well - let her have fun - just as long as it's safe fun.

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      • Janex1

        i couldn't give the boy relief myself, not that I wouldn't want to!
        I have been reading the comment s and I've started to come round to the fact that maybe it WOULD be best if he took my daughter's virginity in the security of her own room, with maybe her friends supporting her if she wanted, instead of bing fucked up against some wall like I lost mine.

        Someone posted about the possibility of my having a guest room that they may sneak off to. I do have one and I might even put the seed in her head that maybe its available if she needs privacy and she knows that's where I keep my lingerie so I might leave some out so that she could chose one for herself to wear.

        I know she's only 15 and I know that i'm her mother but i do want her first time to be memorable for the right reasons. And if Olivia and the other girls want a share of him then I cant prevent that.

        As for the boys sister, they are unusually close. A better word would be intimate, so maybe there is something going on there as well?

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        • justlooking1976

          They might all be screwing already. If so, the rest is moot. Nice that you're willing to let your daughter enjoy sex. Not many parents go there.

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      • UnabashedUser

        Tell him you're going to sniff his middle fingers the next morning before he leaves. If they don't stink, he's home free. If they smell like pussy he's in trouble, and if they smell like shit he's really in trouble.

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  • Kaatelynn_

    If your uncomfortable with it you could possibly check on them multiple times. You could tell her 2 friends to tell you if something happens. You could tell them to leave the door open or stay in a certain area. If she's a trustworthy girl then I think you should let him stay over.

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  • mkr7

    No he hasn't had a girl yet, or not that I know of, but as far as nudity goes, he likes to catch me "off guard".
    My husband is quite a lot older than me and so was his Mother, so I think Nathan (my son in law), isn't used to seeing a younger woman relaxed around the house.

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  • justlooking1976

    Absolutely! Mom can even ride his dick too if she's lucky!

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  • kla631

    Well, the boy will be stupid if he agrees to this because girls are wild, they're curious. They'll probably ask to see his dick and maybe all want to touch it, they'll put him through hell. Its all in fun of course but there are emotions involved, even if this starts out innocent enough it may not end well for all concerned. I'm all for male female sleepovers and curiousity is sweet but for the sake of their friendship, I'd advise against it.

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  • gg

    Very interesting perspective you have there justbeacause11. I lost my virginity when I was 16 years old to a much older man. My mother never took interest in actually educating me about sex. I learned everything on my own and perhaps if parents would invest time and energy in guiding their teens on the realities of sex much may possibly be avoided. Safe sex is the best sex. The most important thing you said was why make them feel guilty for something that comes naturally.

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    • Columbusthegreat

      Or just be normal and respect ur mind and body instead of blaming ur teenage slutiness on ur momma shame on u girl

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  • Janex1

    maybe but I can't really ask them to each her, anyway I will trust her and let him sleep in her room.

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  • yjing

    indeed I must say is normal to sleep over but the 3 girls and him makes it a bit wierd. ......teenagers paranoia! argh :)

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  • Sillyneko

    I was only aloud for one male friend to spend the night and thats my GBF (gay best friend) my boyfriend has spent the night a couple times but after nine we wernt alowed in the same room

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    • johnnyrealle

      Did you both screw like rabbits till one minute till nine. Then dream about how wonderful it was. johnnyrealle

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      • Sillyneko

        Gay bestfriend of corse not my boyfriend if we could find a way

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  • 2CuriousGeorge2

    No. That's way too young for that. Take this from a 23 year old who works with 7th-12th graders as my job. You do not want that happening for so many reasons!

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  • Janex1

    No my husband and I split up

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  • mkr7

    No sorry, I dont give my e mail out on here. But I'd love to chat on here.

    Sooo, These two brothers of yours, what age?

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