It is Normal to feel this way, it's normal to want to be a grandparent and to want the same love you have for your partner for your child but it's also quite Normal these days for women to choose not to have all that, be proud that she's self assured and doesn't need a man to feel valued. TBH there's far too many unwanted kids in the world already. Good for her for making that decision and sticking to it if she wasn't sure rather then having one out of peer pressure and both mother and child's life ruined from it. I can't understand how people don't want kids and would be just as upset if when my girls grow up they decide this but it it her life. And her choice. Just let her know you really wanted grandkids but first and foremost your her mum and if not having them will make her happy you will be there for her, however you could advise her too freeze some eggs in case she changes her mind... she will probably say no but it's worth saying just to put it in her head
My daughter doesn't date, want marriage or kids, IIN Im disappointed
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It is Normal to feel this way, it's normal to want to be a grandparent and to want the same love you have for your partner for your child but it's also quite Normal these days for women to choose not to have all that, be proud that she's self assured and doesn't need a man to feel valued. TBH there's far too many unwanted kids in the world already. Good for her for making that decision and sticking to it if she wasn't sure rather then having one out of peer pressure and both mother and child's life ruined from it. I can't understand how people don't want kids and would be just as upset if when my girls grow up they decide this but it it her life. And her choice. Just let her know you really wanted grandkids but first and foremost your her mum and if not having them will make her happy you will be there for her, however you could advise her too freeze some eggs in case she changes her mind... she will probably say no but it's worth saying just to put it in her head