OP, your dad knows this is wrong or he wouldn't be hiding it. He may be "grooming" you, which means training you in a subtle way to be sexual with him. Most sexual abuse of young people by adults starts in this way, not brutally or violently but taking advantage of the young person's inexperience and trust.
It must be confusing for you to be a bit turned on by it but also concerned: that's just your developing sexuality responding, it DOES NOT mean you should act on it and is no excuse for your father's behaviour. If your dad had any real respect for you he wouldn't be putting you in this situation.
Is there an adult you can talk to? Your Mum? Not on the basis of accusing him of anything, just that it's making you uneasy. If you can, just say NO or if that's too hard, make excuses to not do it ... check out his reaction, you may be able to tell from that what his intentions are.
Please PLEASE let this forum know what happens - I for one am concerned for you - take care
my dad tells me to sit on his lap
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OP, your dad knows this is wrong or he wouldn't be hiding it. He may be "grooming" you, which means training you in a subtle way to be sexual with him. Most sexual abuse of young people by adults starts in this way, not brutally or violently but taking advantage of the young person's inexperience and trust.
It must be confusing for you to be a bit turned on by it but also concerned: that's just your developing sexuality responding, it DOES NOT mean you should act on it and is no excuse for your father's behaviour. If your dad had any real respect for you he wouldn't be putting you in this situation.
Is there an adult you can talk to? Your Mum? Not on the basis of accusing him of anything, just that it's making you uneasy. If you can, just say NO or if that's too hard, make excuses to not do it ... check out his reaction, you may be able to tell from that what his intentions are.
Please PLEASE let this forum know what happens - I for one am concerned for you - take care