My dad is cheating

i didnt really wanna talk about the details but idk i guess my mom has been away in France and she'll be staying there for awhile for her job so my dad is living with us now (me and my younger brother and sister). At first it was discreet, or at least he tried to be discreet, like he'd stay up late and wait for us to sleep so he'd talk to her in his room. But recently he doesn't even bother hiding it from us anymore and it's like he'll facetime her literally on the couch with those stupid earphones in and you could hear him whisper "oh yeah that's hot" and "oh you wanna show me" and then he'd pathetically jog to his room and lock the door. Fucking hell my 7 year old brother doesn't need to see this, I mean he's already a horrible role model to him but this is downright ridiculous. And now I'm too grossed out to use the bathroom since I heard him probably wanking off to her while they facetimed in there. I'm the oldest so I feel like it's my responsibility to do something and I hate seeing my brother so uncomfortable because of him. Im not gonna ask any of my friends for advice so I have next to no clue what to do. Help??

Call my mom and tell her (difficulty: 7) 7
Confront him (difficulty: 4) 2
Tell my aunt?? (difficulty: 2.6) 2
Just let it be (difficulty: 1) 4
Throw his phone away (satisfaction: 99) 0
Call the lady on his phone and tell her that he's married if she didn't already know 3
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Comments ( 10 )
  • Mrown

    Actually, all those ideas are good, so do which ever you see fit.

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  • brutus

    Do nothing.

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  • sissycakes

    i am so glad that i have never been in a situation like this. i would watch movies and wonder what i would do. i would never want to hurt my mom or tell on my dad and vice versa. i guess i came to the conclusion that i would not tell anyone and harbor guilt for the rest of my life. but in a real situation it kind of sounds like the wrong thing to do. try to read as much as you can on real life situations trying not to get to scared about bad outcomes. it could help you alot.

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  • Your dad is a grown man, his sex life is HIS business! Do nothing!

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    • My family is my business and I won't do nothing while a cheating asshole wrecks it, especially if it hurts my mom and brother.

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  • Maniac_Squid

    Wow, pretty even votes. Definetely dont let it be, especially with your younger brother. I understand telling her directly is hard, but I think if you confront him, it will lead in your mom finding out, without it being as hard as telling her. If you think there's danger in the situation, take something to record it in case anything bad happens.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Tell everyone.

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    • Nicole20

      I don't think it's wise to tell a 7 year old dad is cybering some slut on the couch.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Okay, then don't tell the seven year old. Tell Mom, tell Grandma, and Grandpa.

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  • Nicole20

    Write an app to dial your mom whenever he calls that woman or she calls him. Make the app silence your mom's phone so she can only listen in.

    Install the app and let nature take its course.

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