My dad forced me to stop seeing my boyfriend, iin?

Is it normal my dad said if I meet him again he's gonna call the cops since he's 18 years older than me. I don't think it's right cause a person shouldn't be able to control another persons emotions.

Is It Normal?
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  • Hm, I typically don't have an issue with age difference, but how old are you? I'm guessing you're under 18 and your bf is in his 30's? That's not too cool.

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  • He's not controlling your emotions, he's controlling who you have contact with and if you're under 18 and sexually involved with someone a lot older, he's probably looking out for you.

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  • He's trying to protect you.

    Being a child/minor in an adult relationship can really mess you up, especially if it become sexual in anyway; because not only are you still maturing mentally and physically, you're also learning from this guy on how to behave with men. Most older men who chase incredibly young girls only want sex or someone to control.

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  • If you're under 18, your father probqbly just wants whats best for you. Despite what you think now, you're really too young to know that for yourself. Older men can and have taken advantage of naive teenagers.

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  • Your dad is mad. He doesn't want another alcoholic old douche fucking a young whore, then he wouldn't be special.

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  • Good for him, way to go Dad!

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  • It's normal for your father to want you to find a better guy. He just wants what's best for you.

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  • There is not nearly enough context.

    Why is he forbidding you to see him? Is it because you're under 18 and he's way over?

    Is the age a coincidence and it's actually because you're Muslim and he's not?

    Not enough info, sorry.

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  • It all depends how old you are and what kind of person the BF is. I had a GF with that age difference without probs from her folks - in fact they were very welcoming, but she was 24.

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  • He was like "Stay away from Juliet!"

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  • Of course it's normal. He's just trying to protect you. My best advice would be to show him you're a responsible adult and that you can make your own choices. Or maybe just talk to him. And hide every phone in your house xD.

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  • Normal. Parents are known for ruining their child's life. How old are you? Maybe your dad thinks he's a pedophile if you're below 18. An 18-year age gap can also be considered taboo in some parts of our cruel world. I wish you well.

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