My crush has a girlfriend now

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Yesterday night I found out a guy I liked for a few years has a girlfriend.

Background, we live in two different sides of the US. I never told him how I felt because I knew he didn’t feel the same, he wouldn’t do a long distance relationship, and I didn’t even have the courage anyways. We also never face timed for some reason, not sure why we hadn’t when we used to talk almost every night for weeks when we first met through a friend. So basically he and I don’t even know what the other looks like. But that doesn’t matter to me, I really like his personality. Eventually we lost contact for a year and recently started to talk again. Then after a month of being super busy and stuff we finally spoke and he said he got a girlfriend now...

I know there was no chance for him feeling the same and a relationship with him but it still hurt. I felt like if things were different and we could be a happy couple. We get a long so well and we see eye to eye in many things, we both had a similar childhood too.

Have you guys ever seen your crush get into a relationship? How did you get over that crush? I need some advice. Please and thank you

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  • sillygirl77
    2 years ago

    He didn't return the feelings and you never saw him. It's okay to feel how you feel anyway, but for your own health take the time you need to get over him and move on to someone available who wants to be with you and you want to be with as well

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    • GeekyGold
      2 years ago

      Yeah I want too, believe me. I been wanting to get over him since I first liked him. I hope I can and meet someone who is actually here. Right now I’m just focusing on my mental and physical health. I haven’t been doing well for the last few months

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      • sillygirl77
        2 years ago

        I'm sorry you haven't been doing well the last few months. I find therapy helpful, maybe it could help you too

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        • GeekyGold
          2 years ago

          I definitely will take therapy some day, I plan do to it when I move out of my parents home. I can’t do it while living with them, they will be harsh about it. They aren’t empathetic or understanding at all

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    Yeah it's happened to me when one of my friends who I had a brief crush on at one point is a girl, years later she has a boyfriend, I decided to not feel bad or be jealous that happened, I just felt happy for her and moved on.

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  • Tommythecaty
    2 years ago

    Yeah, if you leave it for years they’re going to find someone else.....

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Oh, honey, I sincerely hope you get to feeling better soon, and honestly you probably need to take a break from communicating with him unless you enjoy torturing yourself.

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    • GeekyGold
      2 years ago

      Luckily for me we don’t talk as much as we used too. Less communication is better. Thank you for the advice RoseIsabella

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        No problemo.

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