My coworker told me that she doesn’t think i can handle a child birth lol

Is this rude, she blatantly told me she doesn’t think I can handle a child birth. I just responded with a “why do you say that”

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  • Asshole co-workers come and go. It's best to just ignore her comments.

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  • What did she say after you asked her why she said it?

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    • She has been pregnant before but lost the baby which I don’t wish on anyway btw. She hasn’t even experienced childbirth yet so idk what she is talking about

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    • That day I was cramping on my period and wasn’t feeling good emotionally, she had made that dumbass comment.

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      • Okay, but what was her reason for saying what she said?

        I used to think that I had the worst cramps, and I probably have had some pretty bad menstrual cramps. It turned out that when I had abdominal pain so awful that I had to go to the emergency room I actually was diagnosed with colitis. I had stay home from work for six weeks, and I was on painkillers, and couldn't eat solid food. When I finally got a colonoscopy the doctor said that it wasn't ulcerative colitis.

        I'm relatively sure that much of the pain that I thought was due to female problems was actually due to colon problems.

        I've been told that I have IBS most recently. The last gastroenterologist I saw prescribed antispasmodic medication.

        That bitch you work with is an idiot. She needs to mind her own fucking business, and shut her face hole!

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  • Learn to ignore idiotic comments by idiots

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  • Are you thin or frail physically?

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  • This is pretty rude to say to someone. Women are made for childbirth. I would ask why they think so but don't take it to heart.

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  • Do you not take pain well?

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  • This one always makes me laugh.

    Firstly, childbirth is very different for everyone, and is even different for the same women across multiple pregnancies. So there's no consistent measure of the pain - sometimes it's not so bad, sometimes it's hell on earth, and everything in-between.

    Secondly... There's no option to "not handle it". What does this even mean? Even if the pain is awful and you wish you were dead and you don't want to continue and you're screaming for it to stop... That baby is still coming out, one way or another. So at the end of the process when your baby is born, you handled it. Maybe some would say you handled it like a wuss, I don't know, but you still handled it.

    This woman that you work with sounds like a sanctimonious cow. Ignore her stupid comments.

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  • If you get pregnant, you don't really have much choice do you?

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  • Maybe she thinks you're a pussy, or just not built for it for some reasons. Idk, I don't know you and I've never seen you. It's kind of rude, like, what the fuck does she know?

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  • Small hips make childbirth usually more dangerous than wide hips.

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  • Lol?

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