My cousin who is 20 says i'm stupid for thinking of getting pregnant at 35?
We were talking and I said I plan to have kids around 35 because I'm still single and also need time to become more financially stable work on my health etc and she's saying I'm weird that no one can get pregnant at 35 that eggs will be all gone by then and I'll be hitting menopause. This was a legitimate conversation. I told her lots of people have kids at 35 it's completely normal, even 40s is normal. My parents had me when my mom was 39 and my dad was 43! Lots of the parents I work with at my job are in their 40s and they all have babies.
She was pointing out how her parents had her at 21 and that she plans to have kids before she hits 25. I said that's really young none of my friends have kids and they're all over 25 and she said my friends are just weird.
This argument isn't ending, she's still harassing me about it saying I'm going to be an old mom and my kids are going to hate me if I have them at 35.
Is this normal?