My cousin's new girl used to be my steady twenty dollar whore. yikes!

My cousin happens to be my best friend. We are about the same age and grew up living next door to each other. As adults we live in separate parts of the city but we still hang out together from time to time. Anyway, he tells me about this new babe that he is dating and invites me and my current ladylove over to his apartment for dinner and drinks. He sounded so upbeat about his new girl I was very happy for him and looking forward to meeting her. But when we get over to his place I nearly fell out on the floor. His new girl is the same prostitute I frequented 2 years ago. And I did all kinds of really disgusting things with her for twenty bucks a pop. Now, it's only myself and his new girl who are aware of this, and to her credit she was mad cool with the situation. After the four got to talking it became clear to me that my cousin's new girl had turned over a new leaf. She in fact sounded like a very interesting, intelligent person. I would nod to her and she would nod to me on the sly every now and then as if to assure each other that her past life would never be revealed to my cousin. He is in love with her and it bothers me that he'll eventually find out the truth about her and the fact that not only did I know but was an active participant. Should I tell him now, before his relationship with her gets even deeper? Would that be a normal thing for a guy to do for his Bro? I don't trust anyone enough to ask advice about this. His friends are pretty much the same people who are my friends. I don't want someone else to tell him. I don't want him hurt that way. So what do I do? Dilemma from hell.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Keep your mouth shut about this chick, you're no better than her as you were a willing participant and a paying customer. How would you like it if you'd turned over a new leaf in your life and someone tried to sabotage that for you? I bet you wouldn't like it at all. For all you know she may have already told him about her old life.

    Fuck that stupid Bro code bullshit! I don't believe in bros before hoes or chicks before dicks. How about just doing the right thing instead of subscribing to all that bullshi?

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    • shuggy-chan

      A bro would want his bro to be happy above all else id imagine, so yeah. Let her navigate that first if even at all.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Right on, Bro!

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    • ㅤㅤㅤ

      You're like my favourite person on this website

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks!
        :-)
        *curtseys deeply like a debutante at her coming out party*

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  • VirgilManly

    Now she'll only charge you $10 if you keep your mouth shut.

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  • Gspyder

    Sounds like their relationship is pretty new. That's not the kind of thing you blurt out right at the start of a relationship. If she really has turned over a new leaf she'll tell him about her past when it becomes relevant. Since you said she seems really intelligent and nice and he seems happy, you should probably just let things be.

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  • kelili

    You don't have to mess in their couple.

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  • mountain-man82

    I wouldnt say anything about it. He shouldnt get mad at you for something that happened well before they were together. Plus you might ruin a good thing for your cousin if you tell him.

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  • richmanjoe

    If you think he cares about the whore, then tell him now before they are married with kids. You don't have to tell him you banged her (although he will ask), just that you know what she used to do. And as other posters have said, once a prostitute, always a prostitute.

    Start by saying "I love you and think you need to know something. Whatever you decide after I tell you, I will back you up 100%."

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  • poon_jabber

    I would say, as long as she never got AIDS, it's cool. If it got to that point that he found out and felt that you should've said something, get your girl to vouch for you about this dilemma and that you decided not to tell him bcuz you cared about his feelings.

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  • bellatrice

    Oh no!

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    He's going to find out sooner or later. It might as well be from a "friend".

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  • allisonhamershamn260

    tell him, prostitutes are awful people and will cheat or turn tricks whenever they need to. i know i think i dated one.

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